CONTROLLING WIVES AS POTENTIALLY DANGEROUS MOTHER IN--LAWS

By

Abu Imrān 

Most wicked mothers-in-law are bad wives to their husbands. Many of them wrestled for and won the control of their husband's house and are now afraid of their own shadow, lest their son marry a woman like them. As a matter of fact, if your father-in-law is firmly in control of his house the interference of his wife in his son's home will be limited.

You see those families where women call the shots? If you are married into such a family, you are likely in trouble. Without generalising, women don't really do well overseeing women without supervision. Superiority tussle will be inevitable. She will expect you to be enslaved to her. You shouldn't cough without letting her know!

So, as a man, taking charge of your home is saving even the next generation of families to be raised by your sons. If as a man you know your mum is the one that has the final say in your father's house, you better gain your independence before you consider marriage. Make sure you can take decisions on your own and stand by it irrespective of what anyone says, including your mum. Otherwise, you will just bring a woman into misery.

It is neither lovely nor romantic to let a woman control your home in whatever capacity. It is just plain dumb and unmasculine. If she can't stay under a man, let her go. Some cancers are better avoided than treated.