CHEATING AND CHEATING BACK IN MARRIAGE: THE FEMINIST ANGLE
By
Lateefah Adewumi Jum'ah (Lajfingers)
24th Rabee'ul Aakhir 1446 AH (27th October 2024)
Shaytan is spreading his tentacles all across social media through his agents.
I came across a shocking post by a staunch feminist yesterday. The post was about teaching women how to cheat back on their cheating husbands. The woman in question encouraged women to share their cheat-back experiences which they indeed shared. I was flabbergasted beyond words. I cringed. In fact, the comments weakened my limbs. How did we get here? When has zina turned to competition?
I checked the list of commenters and I was happy that there was no single Muslim woman among the wild d*ogs. I heaved a deep sigh of relief. At least, the madness has not reached this side. May it never reach our side. One Muslim woman commented on the post but her comment was castigating the poster and for this, the insults hurled at her was inexplicable.
Women are now cheating back on their cheating husbands, no wonder cases of paternity fraud abound. While cheating is condemned for both genders, a cheating woman is more at risk of the consequences of cheating because a man doesn't get pregnant. It's a woman that'll be confused on whose child she's carrying after cheating. It's really pathetic.
Dear Muslim woman, don't ever think of cheating back on a cheating husband. Adultery, Zina, is not a payback competition. Your husband is answerable to Allah if he commits adultery. Don't also commit adultery to get even or get back at him. If you do this, you're also answerable to Allah. And you'll be treading a path of destruction along with him. Destruction is not competition. Badness shouldn't be competed with.
May we not be tested with an adulterous husband. If your husband is an adulterer and you detest sharing life with a sinner (because an adulterer is a sinner)instead of cheating back and becoming a sinner like him, why don't you just get a divorce. Adultery is a good ground for divorce.
The feminist I'm talking about, some Muslim women on this space may know her. She's a notorious feminist. Please avoid her contents as much as you can.
May our life and hereafter not be destroyed by negative influence. Aamin.
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