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Ibn Abdillah As-sudaisiy Al-Iloori

Shaytān should not ever be trusted. The truth is that there is nothing Allāh has prohibited us from doing that He has not given us the halāl alternatives. In place of zina, Allāh gave us marriage. If you don't have a means to marry, then keep to fasting. In place of pornography, Allāh gave us free access to our spouses. A couple can view and touch each other from hair to the toes. In place of masturbation, there is handjob and fingering to be enjoyed from a spouse. Instead of doing sex chat with a stranger, do it with your spouse. Instead going to the club to view naked women or staring at any woman that you see, call your wife and tell her to strip naked for you. It is your right. There is nothing another woman has that your woman doesn't have and vice versa. 

I will not stop hammering on the fact that we must create time to relate and play with our spouses both online and offline. Don't be too busy for this. It is one of the loopholes for shaytān in this era. If a man or woman is a chatting type, his or her spouse should also strive to be one. If you don't know how to do chit-chat with your husband or wife, I have discussed in the book: Halāl Sex and Intimacy. I have tried to be detailed in the book to a great extent so that we would not have any reason to go and be engaging in any form of harām relationships, whether online or offline.

May Allāh guide us aright.

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